Parenting

How should parents teach their child? is there a standard way? people do teach differently. but how would u stop a child from crying? Scold further? Flash out your "weapon" - cane? or just hit? there is so much responsibility to having a child. I always thought it is important to do family planning. If u didn't then do u have the right to be angry with your child? be frustrated? a child gets even more annoying when he is sick, so parents should be more tolerant? i suppose so since they couldn't tell you directly & exactly how uncomforatble he is. but is there a need to lock him out to teach him a lesson? I've seen it many times. said many times too. that is not the right way! but i was always told not to interfere. fine... I've no right to do so too. but an elder has right? but was shoo away too. they just want to use their method. but its not working hello.... I hope they will understand. haiz... how prepared are 2 person who want to have children? I hope I will get the answer next time before I start my own family...