someone told me these today:
Don't judge the outcome of promises they make. Don't doubt them. give them a chance to let his promise be fulfilled. when you pin him down by not believing in the promise, he has double burden. its not a good or bad situation. its just a situation. try to be neutral for start. to think positively is to take 2 steps. so slowly, be neutral first. Actually the problem is you and you faith is not strong. if the faith is strong you won't question him. if you love him truely, have faith. thats it. no question asked.
hhmm ya thinking back, why do people even question in the first place? do you really trust the person whom you claim you do? many people don't. they still have doubts. even I do. but listening to all these really enlightened me. if you trust him, you should also trust that he will not do anything to disappoint you. although there may be failed cases and examples, but never pin him down. well, just have faith in what you believe in. never question yourself and the faith that you believe in. by the way, i didn't know there are 2 steps to thinking positively. haha...
